Saturday, February 28, 2026

TIME TO DECIDE: The Will of God in Our Lives - Our Magic 8-Ball God 3-1-26

TIME TO DECIDE: The Will of God in Our Lives - Our Magic 8-Ball God 3-1-26


INTRODUCTION


Renewal 2026


Time to Decide


The seduction of freedom

The satisfaction of searching for “God’s will”

The significance of living the will of God

God’s will of decree

God’s will of desire

God’s will of direction (tricky)

Timidity

Awaiting perfection

Too many choices

Cowardice


The conventional approach to the will of God 

a.  A corn maze with only one way out

b.  A bullseye with the center of God's will in the middle and everything else not

c.  A Magic 8-Ball with generic answers


Why is this conventional approach to the will of God wrong?


‭‭Romans‬ ‭12:1-2‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

‭‭ Romans‬ ‭12:1-2‬ ‭NIV‬‬


5 Problems with the Conventional Approach


I. WE TEND TO FOCUS ON NONMORAL PROBLEMS


A. First, the conventional approach to discovering God's will focuses almost all of our attention on nonmoral decisions.


Does God care about which shampoo you use?


This doesn't mean we shouldn't be thoughtful or consider how God has wire us or  the command to do all for the glory of God.

1 Corinthians‬ ‭10:31‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.”

‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭10:31‬ ‭NIV‬‬


B. God has more concern about our moral lives.


‭‭Micah‬ ‭6:8‬ ‭NIV


“He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

‭‭ Micah‬ ‭6:8‬ ‭NIV


II. DO WE HAVE A SNEAKY GOD?

A. Second, the conventional approach implies that we have a sneaky God.


In the conventional approach

God knows what we should do.

He has the perfect plan for our lives.

He'll hold us accountable if we don't follow His will.

He won't show us what that will is.

God is sneaky!!


B. We do not usually know what is going to happen, but God is not trying to trick us.


III. WE NEED TO KNOW THE FUTURE


A. Third, the conventional approach encourages a preoccupation with the future.


We don't just want to know that God is with us; we want to know the end from the beginning.


B. We obsess about the future.  We get anxious.


‭‭James‬ ‭4:13-15‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend  a year there, carry on business and make money.” Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.””

‭‭ James‬ ‭4:13-15‬ ‭NIV‬‬


Corrie Ten Boom in The Hiding Place relates an incident which taught her this principle. She and her sister, Betsy, had just been transferred to the worst German prison camp they had seen yet, Ravensbruck. Upon entering the barracks, they found them extremely overcrowded and flea-infested. Their Scripture reading that morning in 1 Thessalonians had reminded them to rejoice always, pray constantly, and give thanks in all circumstances. Betsy told Corrie to stop and thank the Lord for every detail of their new living quarters. Corrie at first flatly refused to give thanks for the fleas, but Betsy persisted. She finally succumbed. During the months spent at that camp, they were surprised to find how openly they could hold Bible study and prayer meetings without guard interference. It was several months later when they learned that the guards would not enter the barracks because of the fleas.

Corrie Ten Boom, The Hiding Place.


IV. DON'T BLAME ME!


A. Fourth, the conventional approach undermines personal responsibility, accountability, and initiative.


When Paula and I left Ohio almost over 30 years ago, we told the congregation that we felt God wanted me to go to seminary.  There were people who were upset, angry, looking for other reasons, etc.  The truth is that we chose to leave.  We were RESPONSIBLE for the decision as we followed God’s leading.


A guy told a nice Christian girl he wanted to ask her out.  She told him the Holy Spirit said, "No."  The 3rd person of the Trinity took time out to tell this young man "no".  She was not accountable.


Haddon Robinson explains how the conventional approach undermines personal initiative.  "If we ask, "How can I know the will of God? We may be asking the wrong question.  The Scriptures do not command us to find God's will for most of life's choices nor do we have any passages instructing on how it can be determined.  Equally significant, the Christian community has never agreed on how God provides us with such special revelation.  Yet we persist in searching for God's will because decisions require thought and sap energy.  We seek relief from thee responsibility of decision-making and we feel less threatened by being passive rather than active when making important choices."


B. Sometimes we pass off passivity as patience and waiting as watchfulness.  Sometimes we pick doing nothing over doing something.


V. IT'S SUBJECTIVE 


A. Fifth, the conventional approach enslaves us in the chains of hopeless subjectivism.  


Open door v. Temptation

Closed door is the answer v. Testing our steadfastness and resolve 

Not wrong to make decisions with "our gut."  We need a better plan.


Author of a Christian book told the story of an accident he had while horseback riding and the regret he lived with when he realized he asked God if he should ride the horse but did not ask where he should ride the horse.  


We certainly should pray for safety.  What response should we wait for?  


This highlights the real point.  If there really is a perfect will of God we are meant to discover, in which we will find tremendous freedom and fulfillment, why does it seem that everyone looking for God's will is in such bondage and confusion?  


That doesn't sound like freedom to me.


B. God gives us the ability to choose.


CONCLUSION


Anne S. Alexander in her book, Power, wrote:


Back in the depression days of the early 1930’s, my husband pastored a small country church. We then had three little children. Many times our weekly income was less than $10.00. One day, we found ourselves out of bread and with only some rancid bacon grease for shortening. I used it, however, in making hot biscuits and we managed to eat some of them for lunch. Later, as we put the remaining biscuits on the supper table, our five-year-old daughter prayed very earnestly, “Dear Jesus, help us to eat these biscuits or else send us some better ones. Amen!” Later that evening, the doorbell rang. There, at the door, stood a member of our church who had a bakery route. Before we could tell him our story he began un-loading his large bakery basket with all kinds of tempting sweet rolls, buns, biscuits, besides dark and white bread. “You know,” he said rather apologetically, “I was tired tonight and seven miles out here in the pouring rain seemed so far. I was tempted to wait until tomorrow evening and bring these bakery things on my way to prayer meeting as I usually do.” Then he added, “But I was strongly constrained to come tonight! Hope you can use these things!”

Anne S. Alexander, Power, n.d.


The will of God impacts more than non-moral issues. Our God is not a sneaky God. We do not have to know the future to live in the will of God. We have responsibility in living the will of God. The will of God is more than subjective uncertainty. We can live the will of God by following His Word and discovering His will as we live a holy and righteous life.


INVITATION


It is our custom to offer an "invitation" following the preaching of the Word.  You may want to follow Jesus.  You may want to proclaim your faith.  You may want to repent (stop doing ungodly things and start doing Godly things).  Perhaps you want to be baptized for the forgiveness of your sins     and receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.  Possibly, if you have already responded to God’s call in these ways, you would like to become a member of Kenwood Church.  If you have been moved by the Holy Spirit to make a decision in your life, you can come forward now.  If you would like, I would be honored to speak with you following the service about what God is doing in your life.

2-25-26 S.U.M. It Up!


 

Saturday, February 21, 2026

TIME TO DECIDE: The Will of God in Our Lives - Directionally Challenged 2-22-26

TIME TO DECIDE: The Will of God in Our Lives - Directionally Challenged 2-22-26


INTRODUCTION


Renewal 2026


Time to Decide


The seduction of freedom

The satisfaction of searching for “God’s will”

The significance of living the will of God

God’s will of decree

God’s will of desire

God’s will of direction (tricky)


Pray!


I. WE WANT TO PLEASE GOD


Romans‬ ‭12:1-2‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

‭‭Romans‬ ‭12:1-2‬ ‭NIV‬‬


A. Do we want to please God?

B. Do we prefer conformity to transformation?

C. Do we find comfort in the confusion of God’s will?


II. WE ARE TIMID


Some Christians need encouragement to think before they act.  Others need encouragement to act after they think. 


A. Boldness does not come naturally to all of us.

B. Idleness has become a virtue.


1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5:14‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.”

‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5:14‬ ‭NIV‬‬


C. We need to wake up.


2 Timothy 1:7 NIV


“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”

‭‭2 Timothy‬ ‭1‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬


III. WE WANT PERFECT FULFILLMENT


A. Fulfillment as a life goal.


The pop psychology of today pushes a life of ever increasing fulfillment.  Other generations just did.


B. Faith doesn't guarantee you life or a type of life.

C. My fulfilled life may look very different than yours.


Bruce Waltke - "Abel had faith and died; Enoch had faith and did not die; Noah had faith and everyone else died."  


IV. WE HAVE TOO MANY CHOICES


A. We have I too many choices 


Once upon a time you did what your parents did, lived where they did, raised your kids where they raised theirs


B. The freedom to choose is a prison of ones own choosing.


Barry Schwartz from  "The Paradox of Choice":


“In a moderately sized grocery store, he found 285 varieties of cookies, 13 sports drinks, 65 box drinks, 85 kids' juices, 75 iced teas, 95 types of chips and pretzels, 15 kinds of bottles water, 80 different pain relievers, 40 options for toothpaste, 150 lipsticks, 360 types of shampoo, 90 different cold remedies, 230 soups, 75 instant gravies, 275 varieties of cereal, 64 types of barbecue sauce, and 22 types of frozen waffles.”


C. Decisions have to be made


Decide - Latin decidere "to cut off"


Church choice - just serve a local congregation


A.W. Tozier said:

The man or woman who is wholly and joyously surrendered to Christ can’t make a wrong choice – any choice will be the right choice.


V. WE ARE COWARDS


A. We secretly pray for God's will because we want to know that everything will be OK.

B. We must be brave.


Mordecai and Esther and Haman's plot to kill the Jews


‭‭Esther‬ ‭4:11-16‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“All the king’s officials and the people of the royal provinces know that for any man or woman who approaches the king in the inner court without being summoned the king has but one law: that they be put to death unless the king extends the gold scepter to them and spares their lives. But thirty days have passed since I was called to go to the king.” When Esther’s words were reported to Mordecai, he sent back this answer: “Do not think that because you are in the king’s house you alone of all the Jews will escape. For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father’s family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to your royal position for such a time as this?” Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: “Go, gather together all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my attendants will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish.””

‭‭ Esther‬ ‭4:11-16‬ ‭NIV‬‬


"Courage is contagious. When a brave person takes a stand, the spines of others are stiffened."

Billy Graham


C. God created opportunities for us to rise up.


‭‭Ecclesiastes‬ ‭7:14‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider this: God has made the one as well as the other. Therefore, no one can discover anything about their future.”

‭‭ Ecclesiastes‬ ‭7:14‬ ‭NIV‬‬


‭‭Romans‬ ‭8:28-29‬ ‭NIV‬‬


“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.”

‭‭ Romans‬ ‭8:28-29‬ ‭NIV‬‬


CONCLUSION


THE GOODNESS OF GOD


His goodness is an ocean that has no shore.

A Mountain that has no summit.

A Road that has no end.

Not meager, but much.

Not skimpy but sufficient.

Not little, but limitless·

Not barely, but bountiful·

Not feeble, but full.

Philip Pascal, “The Goodness of God”, www.sermoncentral.com, August 3, 2003.


God has a plan that will take you through trial and triumph and allow you to be transformed into the image of His Son. If we want to please God, we must make brave choices!


INVITATION


It is our custom to offer an "invitation" following the preaching of the Word.  You may want to follow Jesus.  You may want to proclaim your faith.  You may want to repent (stop doing ungodly things and start doing Godly things).  Perhaps you want to be baptized for the forgiveness of your sins     and receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.  Possibly, if you have already responded to God’s call in these ways, you would like to become a member of Kenwood Church.  If you have been moved by the Holy Spirit to make a decision in your life, you can come forward now.  If you would like, I would be honored to speak with you following the service about what God is doing in your life.